It is a well-known truth that successful marriages are built on mutual trust and can weather any stormy circumstance. Such a strong foundation of a marriage can never be shaken by any force in the world. Trustworthiness tops the list of qualities most people look for in a spouse.
Mutual trust is nourished by the constant and conscious effort of both partners in a happy marriage. Trust is not built in a single day. It takes a long period of time to take deep roots and become unshakable. Conversely, a single stupid word or action can ruin trust in no time.
How to build such a strong pillar of trust?
The first and most important way is to keep your words. Make it a priority to keep all your promises. Never make a promise you can’t keep. Live your words at all costs to become trustworthy at all times. It strengthens not only the trust in your partner’s heart but also promotes a happy and lasting marriage. It tells how far you can go to make your spouse happy. So remember, a broken promise is an easy killer of trust and marriage. Take the initiative to live your words.
If you can’t keep your promise or change your mind, admit it honestly. Explain why and how this change is necessary. If you did not keep your promise due to forgetfulness, you can always apologize and make the firm decision not to forget such important things again. You can consciously try to follow some reminder methods or even ask your spouse to remind you of important promises from time to time.
You can also rebuild trust if you’re already having problems. Respecting each other’s space, forgiveness, open communication are some of the ways you can develop strong and unshakable trust.
Marriages thrive on mutual trust. Build trust and keep it strong and permanent.