In the past, when someone had a second wedding, it was a simple event. However, second weddings today occur more frequently and have become more accepted, making some second wedding ceremonies larger celebrations than the first.
Keeping your eyes focused on the details of second weddings, such as the reason for the wedding, the location, the decorations, and the schedule, will go a long way in making this a special and memorable event. Handling these particular details will ensure special memories that you will cherish forever.
At second weddings, many soon to be married couples have children from a previous relationship. When this is true, it is recommended that couples meet with children alone first to tell them about the commitment, before any other family members or friends. This way, children will not feel self-conscious if they want to ask questions, since there are no other people around. This is the right time to consider your input. Second weddings are generally less of a problem if children can share their opinions. Once the kids know about the engagement, you can tell the bride and groom’s parents, siblings, and friends.
Second wedding guests are not expected to deliver wedding gifts. In almost all cases, couples who are entering their second marriage already have two of everything and do not want to have anything extra in their home, since two families will unite. You should not accept any gifts, but ask that people make donations to charities in honor of the couple.
Second weddings are a great way to get the kids involved in the wedding ceremony or reception. They can take on the role of bridesmaids or groomsmen, flower girls or ring bearers, or they can be ushers. If they wish, they can sing, read poetry, or light a candle during the ceremony.
Taking these tips into account when planning a second wedding will ensure that couples and their newly expanded families get off on the right foot, while creating memories that will last a lifetime.