She expects you to ask the question, after all, they have been dating for a while and all the signs show that they are suitable for each other. You feel confident and ready to take the next big step toward marital happiness. She is hinting. You are thinking. She is looking at the jewelry displays. You’re looking at the price tags. Will the one you finally buy be the one to dazzle her? You wonder as you swallow a pain reliever to ease that throbbing headache. Guys, there is no need to stress, no matter which ring you choose for her, they will make an impression that will last a lifetime. But here are five little steps to help you make a more confident decision as you make your way to this all-important purchase.
1. Be attentive.
Take mental notes of what kind of rings you are looking at. Are they contemporary in style, or are they more traditional or older?
Contemporary style rings are modern designs, with strong lines, more architectural and more daring shapes. Traditional style rings are simple and classic solitaires, sometimes with two decorative stones on either side of the center diamond. The antique style has been very popular in recent years with beaded details, leaf motifs, and intricate carvings. All that milligram around the setting and band gives the ring an antique look.
Beyond the setting, you most likely express a preference for the shape of the diamond. The most popular are the round diamond and the princess (square) cut. Many women prefer the princess cut, but many jewelers will insist that round diamonds have a brighter shine due to their cuts. It will surely also depend on the style of the environment. If you have a clear preference for setting the stone shape will follow, if you focus more on the diamond shape then any style setting is sure to please you.
2. Decide on a budget.
Calculate your budget limit, how much you are willing to spend on a diamond will determine its quality, size and weight. So going on a budget will help you cut down on stone and save you time.
3. Gather pictures.
Now you have a clear idea of what you like and the budget that is acceptable to you. Get yourself plenty of magazines and cut out the ring images that most closely resemble your favorites. This will help you visually and it will also help the jeweler. At Jewels Quest, we always end up customizing an engagement ring as clients want a creation that is uniquely their own. With lots of images to refer to, this will help any jeweler if they decide to go the extra mile and create a one-of-a-kind piece, again with their preferred style in mind.
4. Research.
Researching prices on the Internet, I do not recommend buying online, although some do, but seeing the stones up close and understanding their properties makes the buying process much more interesting and you will make a more informed decision.
5. Find a jeweler.
Independent jewelers are more likely to have the jeweler on site. And often these jewelers have been in business for decades and will have more in-depth knowledge than trained sales reps. You can also request a private appointment with the jeweler that could make the shopping experience less stressful. Diamonds range from 2,000 to over 40,000. Somewhere in the middle you can find the perfect size and quality diamond you are looking for. You will probably not make a decision on your first visit, do not let any jeweler pressure you, if you feel pressured, shop around. Also, if you have decided to customize your setting design, make a list of jewelers who specialize in custom design and buy the diamond with them.
With these five easy steps, you will end up with a unique and impressive ring for your special proposal day. Remember: pay attention. Make a budget. Gather image references. Research the cost of diamonds. Find a jeweler.
Above all, enjoy your shopping. Good luck!