The wedding is over, the guests have gone home. Now is the time to relax, right? It may surprise you to learn that planning the perfect honeymoon is often just as stressful for couples as planning the perfect wedding. While honeymoon details were traditionally meant to be handled by the groom, these days women are understandably reluctant to leave such important plans to their man.
Here are some tips on how to plan the kind of honeymoon you both want.
Budget
Surely if you had an unlimited budget you could rent a private island, or party with celebrities at an exclusive resort in Bora Bora or Parrot Cay. But weddings are expensive enough that you don’t want to sink yourself into an even deeper hole by adding an expensive honeymoon. On the other hand, you don’t want to save so much that your honeymoon is short and unforgettable. So discuss with your spouse how much you’re willing to spend as a couple, and then stick with it.
One of the best ways to have an amazing honeymoon on a budget is to travel in the off-season. Whether this means rescheduling your wedding or delaying the honeymoon for a few months, you can often find amazing deals if you’re willing to compromise on your dates. Many places, like Bermuda, are busiest in the summer, which is traditionally the most popular time for a wedding. But if you’re traveling in the fall or early spring, you can often find first-class hotels at a deep discount.
Another way to have a wonderful yet inexpensive honeymoon is to stay close to home. While you may dream of going somewhere exotic, try looking for romantic getaways within driving distance of where you live. You’d be amazed at the beautiful destinations that lurk in your own backyard. This type of honeymoon can make you feel like you’re a world away, without having to spend like you are.
Discuss the type of honeymoon you want
Maybe you are the type of couple who dreams of a relaxing walk on the beach. Or maybe your idea of romance is diving with sharks. The key is to discuss your dream honeymoon with your partner and then be willing to compromise if the two of you have very different ideas of what you consider a romantic vacation. Often, something like a cruise can be an ideal solution for couples who can’t agree on what they want. Many cruise ships offer relaxation and pampering, but with plenty of opportunity for adventure activities on land.
get off the beaten path
One way to design a memorable honeymoon is to skip the usual resorts and tourist activities. For example, instead of opting for an escorted tour, try renting bikes and exploring your honeymoon destination on wheels. You’ll still be able to see all the highlights your destination has to offer without the crowds of a tour, and you’ll likely discover some hidden gems along the way.
Another great way to plan a unique visit and save some money is to do what the locals do. It’s great to try the expensive restaurants designed for tourists. But try to save your expensive meals for dinner and then dine at local places for your other meals. Or check out the farmers market for fresh local produce and baked goods.
do not be shy
Hotels and tour operators often have deals that cater exclusively to honeymooners. If you are using a travel agent, let them know they are newlyweds. In fact, tell everyone: tour groups, hotels, and restaurants. You might get little perks and upgrades, like chocolates on your pillow at a hotel or a restaurant table overlooking the water for your special occasion.