It amazes me how many guys have no idea how to attract a girl. I constantly get complaints from men that no matter what they do, they never seem to attract the girls they want. They always end up attracting the girls they don’t want.
Well, there is a reason for that. When you unknowingly pursue a girl, your behavior is different towards the girl you pursue compared to a girl you don’t care about.
It really isn’t that hard to attract a girl. However, you need to know what you are doing.
Listed below are three powerful tips on how to attract a girl:
- Show him that you don’t care: As mentioned above, there is a reason why girls you don’t like go after you, you project a different image around them. However, when you are around a girl you like, you are no longer natural and seem enthusiastic. You have to be around the girls you like exactly like the girls you don’t like. You have to show the girls you like that you just don’t care if you get them or not. It’s not going to make a little difference in your life. You have more important things to worry about.
- Your world should surpass hers: You want to show her that you live an exciting life and that she would be lucky to be a part of it. A girl will not be with a man she perceives to be of less value to her. She will only date a guy who is at least as valuable as hers, if not even higher (which is what she prefers). So you need to show her that your world is better than hers. One way to do this is to share exciting and interesting stories with her. Of course, make them sound realistic. I hope you have a life interesting enough that you don’t have to make things up.
- Show him that you are a busy guy: We as humans will chase after what we cannot get. If something is scarce, it automatically increases in value, like diamonds. There is a reason why diamonds are worth so much more than bronze, there are far fewer diamonds around. Well, you have to show the girls that your time is scarce. You are a busy guy and they will be lucky if they can have some of your time. That will make him want to spend more time with you.
Above was a snippet on how to attract a girl. If you follow the tips above, you’ll be well on your way. However, if you want to learn even more tips in more detail and discover powerful underground techniques, read on.