A chastity device might seem like an odd thing to pin on your man, and you might think it’s something from the Middle Ages or a weird fetish or kink that’s best left to “other people.”
A chastity device can do wonders for your marriage
Here are three reasons why:
- A chastity device will prevent him from masturbating. Although this is not the cause of problems in a marriage it is their symptom and they can lead to other problems. By keeping his sexual energy to yourself, he will focus on you just as he did before when you were first together.
- It will become more loving and caring. Some people confuse this with your submission. East it is Possible, of course, but not as common as the hype mongers would have you believe. The truth is, you can NOT force him to wear a chastity device unless he is willing to wear it.
- Both of you will experience more physical and emotional intimacy, which most women really want, but most men are not very good at. Paradoxically, couples who practice strict male chastity usually end up having more sex, not less (the difference is that now the man rarely reaches orgasm).
There is a huge misconception that not only do relationship problems come from men being lazy and more into porn than their wives, the truth is that relationships become stale because they both feel comfortable with each other and feel like they don’t have to. try so hard.
Male chastity, applied with a chastity device, changes all that.
Now, in my experience, when the idea of this is presented to a partner, whether by a man or a woman, the reaction is usually one of surprise.
There are two reasons for this: first, most men go wrong with the most ill-considered approach and tend to focus on the sexual aspects; and second, there’s an overwhelming image of a man who enjoys male chastity being some kind of submissive or doormat, and asking for this somehow makes it a bit weird.
The answer to the first is that men and women (although it is almost always the man who drives male chastity) approach the issue in terms of what’s in it for their partner, and it’s not enough to just tell them… I have to show them, also.
And to answer the second… if you’ve ever engaged in light teasing and playfully “ask me nicely” during normal sexual intercourse, then you’ve already experienced a mild form of male chastity. The only difference between this game and the more serious chastity enforced with a chastity device is the length of the game.
Of course, male chastity will not repair a broken relationship and is not a cure-all, and if you can’t stand the sight of each other or the touch of your partner gives you goosebumps, then I think male chastity any kind just isn’t going to help you.
So… if your relationship is fundamentally sound and yet you know there is a certain “something” you’ve lost in your time together and you’d like to experience and rekindle those hot, passionate, irresistible “early years.” days “feelings then…